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Finding your tribe

We are the sum of all people we have ever met; you change the tribe and the tribe changes you.

– Dirk Wittenborn

Finding your tribe – or a group of like-minded people – is an important part of your personal growth and development. Your tribe is a group of people who share your values, interests, and experiences, and who can provide you with the support, encouragement, and accountability you need to thrive. Here are a few reasons why finding your tribe is important for empaths, and how to connect with like-minded people:

  1. Your tribe can provide you with a sense of belonging and connection. As an empath, you may feel a strong need for connection and belonging, and your tribe can fulfill this need. It is important to feel like you belong and that you’re not alone nad are you’re part of a larger community. Your tribe can provide this kind of connection, and can help you feel like you’re part of something bigger than yourself. By finding your tribe, you can connect with people who understand you and who share your experiences. This can provide a sense of belonging and connection that can be comforting and reassuring.
    By surrounding yourself with people who understand and appreciate your unique perspective, you can feel less alone and more connected.
  2. Your tribe can provide support and encouragement. Pursuing your goals and making positive changes in your life can be challenging, and your tribe can provide the support and encouragement you need to stay motivated and committed. By sharing your struggles and accomplishments with your tribe, you can gain valuable insights and perspective, and can receive the support and encouragement you need to keep going.
  3. Your tribe can provide a safe space to express your emotions and experiences. As an empath, you may feel overwhelmed by your emotions at times. Your tribe can provide a safe space to express yourself and to process your emotions without judgment. This can be incredibly valuable and can help you manage your emotions more effectively.
  4. Your tribe can provide accountability. As an empath, you may struggle with staying accountable to yourself and your goals. Your tribe can help you stay accountable by providing regular check-ins, feedback, and encouragement. This can help you stay on track with your goals and can increase your chances of success.

But how do you go about finding your tribe? Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Look for online communities or forums that are focused on empathy and sensitive topics. These can be a great way to connect with others who share your experiences and perspectives.
  2. Attend workshops, retreats, or conferences that are focused on empathy and sensitive topics. These can be a great way to connect with others in person and to learn from experts in the field.
  3. Join a support group or therapy group. This can provide a safe and supportive space to connect with others who are also dealing with similar challenges.
  4. Reach out to friends and family who you trust and who understand your experiences. They may not be empaths themselves, but they can provide valuable support and connection.
  5. Be open and authentic in your interactions with others. This can help you attract like-minded people who are drawn to your authenticity and vulnerability.

Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family: Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.”

– Jane Howard

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Detoxify the mind – Art of Meditation

2 days ago I went for the meditation class. Since last few days I felt an earnest need to find some relaxing techniques to detoxify my thoughts. My brain was restless and hyper active even during sleeps and almost each morning I was waking up red eyed and still sleepy.

So I signed up for this meet up that was organized by Rahul who had done a course with “Art of Living”. The session was organized at a local church. There were around 5 more people in the group – all with varied backgrounds and cultures.

The moment I started mediation – my mind flooded with different thoughts, why are we doing it sitting on chair (aren’t we supposed to do it sitting on floor), my clothing is too tight for the breathing exercise, will I feel anything different, Oh my God – most of our life have we need breathing so wrong……………….blah blah.

Gradually my mind settled down, felt an internal calmness creep down my entire body, an undefined peace engulfed me and my body & mind felt so light as if I was floating around. In the meditation they suggested – “embrace the negative thoughts you are feeling” but believe me I couldn’t comprehend even one itsy bitsy negative thought, all I could feel was this calmness, peace and happiness inside me, this exhilarating feeling of lightness, purity and contentment. It is difficult for me to explain exactly what and how I felt … but the experience was too beautiful for me. I didn’t want the session to end, to come out of that state……………….

Maybe I should take that “art of Living” classes or maybe I should simply buy some meditation audio CDs and try it on my own.