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Farmville – found my little OASIS

Few months back one of my cousins hooked me on to Farmville. Generally I am not into online games but within no time I was addicted to this game. Initially it was plain and simple competition – a race to reach advanced levels. Gradually as I got a bigger farm it was day for spring cleaning 🙂 So I decided to change the layout of farm – create a small garden, place cottages , main house, little ponds, ducks ,etc. (It is actually quite a fun. Wish in real life also we were able to rearrange everything in our life the way and when we want to do it……………. )


Anyways I never knew that this simple activity would result in my own little oasis. I rearranged a corner of my farm into this little cute garden – with a pink cottage, ponds with ducks (and obviously ducklings), picnic benches, pink trees, apple trees, etc. And VOILA – suddenly I had my little oasis. A little place where I could so clearly visualize myself – on a nice sunny day,  lying on the wooden bench head on harpal’s lap, under shade of trees, along the little pond with a nice book. WOW even visualizing myself there is soooo relaxing. 






So now  have this little trick – in the middle of meetings, deadlines and mundanity of daily life – I escape into this little garden for my dose of relaxation. So if in middle of meeting if you see me contented with a blessed smile on my face – you know where I am 🙂
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My unfulfilled desires – list of things that I would love to do

Like most of the people I guess, I have my list of things that I want to do, and are still waiting. I am not sure what I am waiting for and what would trigger the escape velocity for me to come out of my routine and actually work on things that I really desire. I have enough time (no matter how much I shout that I am very busy), I can afford, but I postpone.

Here is my list of things that I would love to do, and I never did :
  1. Learn to play guitar.
  2. Learn swimming.
  3. Actively contribute to some social cause. Work for some NGO that helps children and women.
  4. Learn how to dance (classical, salsa,…)
  5. Learn Reiki.
  6. Incorporate the practice of meditation for at least 3 times a week.
  7. Learn to ride a bike (obviously not pillion seat)
  8. Take a cookery course and learn to make exotic dishes.
  9. Travel to New Zealand, Venice, Paris and Hawaii.
  10. Safari in Africa
  11. Own a Jeep.
  12. ……………………………………………..
I think writing them down will help me and I will strike each one of them as and when I fulfill them 🙂
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Life – Delicious ambiguity

“I wanted a perfect ending.
Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme,
and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, and end.
Life is about not knowing, having to change,
taking the moment and making the best of it,
without knowing what’s going to happen next.
……….   Delicious ambiguity”.

Gilda Radner

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Inherent kindness in human soul….

Why do some people deliberately try to hurt others?  Others who try their best to be out of the way!!!

I am a staunch believer of inherent good human nature. It is my strong belief that people are basically good at heart, that is is inherent kindness in every soul. But then I meet such people who make special effort to hurt you, who are spiteful by nature!!!  They are so bitter and carry so much baggage that even on happiest occasions of their lives if somebody calls to congratulate them, they don’t have grace to accept the wishes , but have to make snide comments to hurt other person .. making her regret why she made that effort!!!

I just pray to God that He bless them with so much inner peace and happiness that they forget all about being bitter. May God bless their souls and fill their hearts with love and compassion so that it gets manifested in their interactions  with others.

Please God …. I don’t want to change my conviction…….

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God …. a loving parent

God is like a loving and doting parent who would deny you the evening snack because he doesn’t want you to spoil your appetite for the fantastic dinner he has planned for you (and not to mention the dessert…)
But the spoilt children as we are .. we throw a tantrum, accusing God of being unjust, not loving us enough blah blah. It is only when we are served the amazing dinner that we realise what he had planned for us. 

My all time fav Richard Bach quote summarises this so beautifully –

“The mark of your ignorance is the depth of your belief in injustice and tragedy. What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls the butterfly”